Thinking of getting a third ear piercing? Whether you already have multiple piercings or you're new to the stacking trend, the third lobe piercing is a stylish, versatile option. It’s a growing trend seen on celebrities, influencers, and curated earring boards across Pinterest and Instagram.
In this guide, we'll cover everything you need to know. From placement and pain levels to aftercare, styling tips, and professional advice, consider this your one-stop resource.
What Is a Third Ear Piercing?
Where It's Placed
A third ear piercing generally refers to a third hole in your earlobe—the soft, fleshy part at the bottom of your ear. It sits in line above your first and second lobe piercings, making it ideal for a stacked jewellery look.
Third Lobe Piercing vs. Cartilage Piercing
Don’t confuse a third lobe piercing with a cartilage or upper lobe piercing. While the lobe is soft and heals fairly easily, cartilage is harder and more prone to complications.
Some people with smaller earlobes may find the "third hole" edges closer to the lower cartilage area. That’s why proper placement by a professional is crucial.
Should You Get a Third Ear Piercing?
If your earlobes are large or oval, you’ll likely have no trouble fitting a third piercing. Smaller or rounder lobes might need a modified layout. Some people even go for asymmetrical styles: two piercings on one ear, three on the other, for a modern twist.
Age policies vary by country and studio. In most cases:
- Under 16: Parental consent is required.
- 16–18: May need ID and a guardian, depending on local laws.
- 18+: You can usually get this piercing without consent.
Always check regional rules and studio policies.
Safe Practices and Where to Get Pierced
Choose a licensed, reputable piercing studio. Avoid small kiosks that use piercing guns—they can damage tissue and take longer to heal. Instead, opt for a needle piercing by a trained professional. Ask about sterilisation methods, licensing, and experience with third lobe placements.
Pain Level, Healing Timeline & Aftercare
Does the Third Piercing Hurt More?
Pain is individual, but most say the third lobe piercing is similar to the first two. Expect a sharp pinch followed by slight soreness. It's usually less painful than cartilage piercings.
Healing Timeline (with Week-by-Week Visuals)
- Day 1–3: Mild swelling and tenderness. Slight redness is normal.
- Week 1–2: Healing begins. Avoid touching or twisting the jewellery.
- Week 3–4: Swelling reduces. Keep cleaning to prevent infection.
- Week 5–8: Skin continues to form around the jewellery. Most piercings finish primary healing by 6–8 weeks.
Complete healing may take longer depending on your body and hygiene.
Aftercare Routine (Products & Avoidances)
What to do:
- Clean with saline twice a day.
- Let your ear dry completely after washing.
- Sleep on your opposite side.
What to avoid:
- Swimming in pools or hot tubs.
- Touching your piercing with dirty hands.
- Changing jewellery too early.
What to Expect (Swelling, Itching, etc.)
Mild swelling, light discharge, and occasional itching are normal in the first few weeks. These are signs your body is healing. If you see pus, feel heat, or experience pain beyond the first week, consult your piercer or GP.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Using alcohol or peroxide to clean—it dries out the skin.
- Twisting the earring “to prevent sticking”—this can reopen healing tissue.
- Sleeping directly on your new piercing—it increases pressure and slows healing.
Jewellery Guide: Best Pieces for Your Third Lobe
Right Jewellery for Healing (Studs vs. Rings)
For new piercings, studs are recommended. They hold steady and minimise movement. Choose flat-back studs or small, surgical-grade studs.
Rings or hoops should be saved for after full healing. They move more and may irritate a fresh wound.
Hypoallergenic Materials to Use
Choose high-quality, hypoallergenic metals to reduce the risk of reaction:
- Titanium
- Surgical steel
- Niobium
- 14K+ gold (avoid nickel blends)
Avoid cheap fashion jewellery in the first six months.
When Can You Change Jewellery?
Once fully healed—typically 6 to 8 weeks—you can switch jewellery. If your ear still feels sore or resists movement, wait a bit longer.
Styling Your 3rd Piercing: Match Your Aesthetic
Minimalist
Simple gold or silver studs in descending sizes offer a clean, chic stack. Pearls, bars, or flat discs work beautifully for a refined look.
Boho & Eclectic
Mix metals, shapes, and stones for an earthy, offbeat vibe. Think feathers, opals, or handcrafted drops. Let your personality shine through the contrast.
Glam
Diamonds and sparkles are key. Combine pavé hoops, crystal studs, and dangling chains. Stack with intention—more is more with this look.
Edgy
Black steel, geometric shapes, and mixed stackers bring the rebel energy. Pair your third piercing with spikes or cuffs for added attitude.
Gender-Neutral Looks
Prefer a balanced, understated style? Try matte metal flat-backs, minimalist shapes, or neutral stones like onyx or clear quartz. These fit into both subtle and strong aesthetics.
Real Life Inspiration
Celebrity & Influencer Third Piercing Looks
Scroll through red carpet galleries or TikTok feeds and you’ll spot A-listers embracing the third lobe. Kaia Gerber, Zoë Kravitz, and Harry Styles have all been light-stacking trendsetters.
Customer Gallery: Triple Lobe Pairings
A few stack looks from our beloved LYANG & CO. community.
Professional Tips from Piercers
How to Space Your Earrings
Keep at least 8mm between each lobe piercing. Spacing too closely can crowd jewellery and cause pain. Your piercer can mark your ear to test alignment and balance.
Avoiding Nerve Pathways
Trained piercers know how to avoid key nerve areas. This reduces the risk of long-term discomfort. Trust their advice on placement rather than what looks “even” at first glance.
FAQs About 3rd Ear Piercing:
Does it hurt?
It stings briefly but is generally mild. Similar to a standard lobe.
Can you sleep on it?
Not at first. Wait a few weeks and check that it’s no longer tender.
Can it get infected easily?
Like all piercings, yes—if not properly cleaned. Follow your aftercare plan.
How long will it last?
It can be permanent if well-maintained. Take it out too early, and it may close.
Will the hole close?
Fresh ones can close within hours. Older ones may stay open for weeks or months depending on wear.
Conclusion: Time to Add That Third Sparkle
The third ear piercing is more than a trend—it’s a stylish step toward a personalised ear stack. With the right placement, jewellery, and care, it can elevate your whole aesthetic.
Whether you opt for minimalist studs or bold statement pieces, this piercing adds charm without overdoing it.
